Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Lies beget lies beget lies beget drama…

Let’s jump right on in, shall we?

I watched Matt Lauer’s interview of Senator Larry Craig last night and, despite all hopes that it would be an evening of schadenfreudel bliss, I was disturbed. Maybe it was the result of some recent deception based events I’ve personally experienced…or maybe it was just the tragedy of what unfolded on screen…but that shit troubled me deeply.

My Grandmère, bless her soul, used to say that lies beget lies beget lies beget drama and damn it if life doesn’t constantly prove her right.

Lately, I’ve been making a study of it.

There is the initial lie…the “I’m straight” or “I’m sane” or “I’m a doctor” and so forth. I’ve noticed that there is almost always a motive of gain…some sort of personal or financial benefit that inspires the lie.

Then there is the first question or request for clarification that sets the lie into motion. “What do you do?” “Where do you work?” “When is the baby due?” “Why did you issue a formal statement after that Congressional Page scandal leaked when no one else did?”

What follows is less the living of a lie and more the living life as a sequence of potentially lie exposing moments of anxiety. Someone asks a question that you should know and you don’t know the answer and you have to either handle that shit or fumble it. Each moment of truth adds another item to be juggled and another lie to be maintained.

Oh but there is always a moment of dramatic exposure. The lie is outed…the truth is reveled. Perhaps the liar is arrested while soliciting gay sex…or maybe a personal phone number is found in an alleged madam’s phone book...or mayhap a navy blue dress is sent in for forensic analysis.

Or could it be that someone shows up at the place where you said you worked only to find you do not and never did work there?


Oh the damage damaged people do.

Last night was yet another performance of declaration diplomacy…another fool trying to speak something into being.

I see Senator Craig’s “I’m not gay.” as just another version of that same sorry ass conservative strategy.

Doesn’t “I don't think our troops ought to be used for what's called nation building.” beget “In the battle of Iraq, the United States and our allies have prevailed.” beget “America does not torture.” beget “We will do what it takes.” beget “We want to put poor children first.” beget drama upon drama upon drama…

…and damage upon damage upon damage upon damage?

What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul? (Matthew 16:26).

What indeed?

What indeed…


Antonio said...

I read a partial transcript of the interview. Even in text I could tell the Senator was squirming trying to explain his way out of the mountain of evidence against him.

Hammer said...

OOOh, who lied about working somewhere they didn't??? Do I know them??


Anonymous said...

Girl, that interview sucked! Read this review of it. It hits the nail on the head, including touching on what seemed to be Matt Lauer getting a little bit of the Gay Panic.

Elizabeth said...

"Oh the damage damaged people do..." What an absolutely perfect and beautiful line. I'm stealing it (but I'll credit you and forward people to the blog).

Maya's Granny said...

Lies always catch up to you. It is too hard to remember all the details or to make up all the details or someone who knows always lets it out of the bag.

Not only did my family teach me that, but one summer when I was sick for two months I stayed with my mother and watched her soap operas with her and just two months of that was enough to show anyone what happens when you lie. Things from 30 years in the past popped up and knocked folks down.

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