tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post8888910932800472570..comments2024-01-17T15:05:50.120-06:00Comments on AngryBlackBitch: Pondering a conversation about race…Shark-Fuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03323962708956637012noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-3908758692078167812009-11-20T17:25:17.680-06:002009-11-20T17:25:17.680-06:00That's really sad... when is the US going to s...That's really sad... when is the US going to step out of the 50's?Mrs. Ehttp://comfortzonealternativelifes.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-37724599048427550532009-04-23T14:44:00.000-05:002009-04-23T14:44:00.000-05:00Well, I have stumbled right into a member of the m...Well, I have stumbled right into a member of the most powerful group on the planet-a fully conscious, thoroughly engaged black female. She has no equal. Why? Because her community taught her a form of explicit and implicit filtering of media messages laying bare both their biased and citizen programming natures. This current manufactured financial situation requires examination by the author of this blog and its readers. I recommend a couple of pairs of glasses to look at it with: "Money as Debt" and "Zeitgeist Addendum" both videos are free on google's vid page and youtube. <br />If you can stand a preacher check out "Conquering the Spirit of Debt". You and your readers are thinkers with power and the ability to break through.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-83471757728531956112009-04-20T01:01:00.000-05:002009-04-20T01:01:00.000-05:00@postracial
I agree with you. A "conversation" abo...@postracial<br />I agree with you. A "conversation" about race is just people hurling their viewpoints at each other, and it's usually the same old stuff, nothing new is ever said.<br /><br />Just do it.<br />If enough people would just go ahead and marry outside of their skin pigments, people would be desensitized to interracial relations and it won't be a big deal.Java Bean Rushhttp://javavlog.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-3043713452773950252009-04-14T20:06:00.000-05:002009-04-14T20:06:00.000-05:00The comments... they just reek of ignorance. I don...The comments... they just reek of ignorance. I don't know what else to say about them.adamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01567094890136612041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-36984820927909582832009-04-14T10:27:00.000-05:002009-04-14T10:27:00.000-05:00I love how people talk about interracial couples l...I love how people talk about interracial couples like that's synonymous with the dreaded black man- white woman. The highest percentage of interracial couples in this country is white man- Asian woman.Meyer_Lanskynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-38162592341261986012009-04-13T23:01:00.000-05:002009-04-13T23:01:00.000-05:00I am so not surprised at half the things that go o...I am so not surprised at half the things that go on over at the post. They delete the comments they want but often leave up racist comments on stories across the website. The comments get so bad sometimes that it becomes hard for me to even read the post via the web (with the exception of Kevin Johnson's The Blender) because I get so outraged at the foolishness that follows.suiteSTLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11273738085683821100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-82372775230199985902009-04-13T17:41:00.000-05:002009-04-13T17:41:00.000-05:00"Black man kisses white woman!". Maybe it's just m...<I>"Black man kisses white woman!"</I>. Maybe it's just me but doesn't it look like the white woman is one doing the kissing? *wink-wink*<BR/><BR/>And I feel terrible for this couple, as if the daily treatment they recieve isn't bad enough, they now have to read those hateful comments from two hundred anonymous jerks who feel its their duty to judge their relationship...oleander.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07044650543663567036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-70380049618739527102009-04-13T17:20:00.000-05:002009-04-13T17:20:00.000-05:00You know, just this Sunday at the Easter table, I ...You know, just this Sunday at the Easter table, I had a great conversation about race. It was face to face with my brother and sister in law (an interracial couple) and my "mother in law once removed" - that would be my brother in law's mom who is near and dear to my heart.<BR/><BR/>That conversation about race covered everything from my son (one of the few white kids at his school,) to my brother in law (one of the few black kids when he went to school,) to his mom (who won an essay contest when she was in high school but didn't get to read it for the school like the *other* kids did) to modern um...naming conventions among some black families. <BR/><BR/>That my friends was a real conversation about race. Those are the kinds of conversations we all need to have. I'm fortunate that I live in a community of people who have those conversations often.<BR/><BR/>I think I'll steer clear of the shouting match on the Post's site. Makes me scared and I'm a white girl from the boondocks.bevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07730450667890852755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-44587971444025325402009-04-13T16:46:00.000-05:002009-04-13T16:46:00.000-05:00Whoa!And I thought Boston was bad!My wife is white...Whoa!<BR/><BR/>And I thought Boston was bad!<BR/><BR/>My wife is white, I'm black and I've had quite a few things happen, including a bunch of 'townies' call me nigger and challenge me to a fight (on the night the Boston Red Sox won the Series and it was ironically my birthday) for the crime of walking hand in hand with my then fiancee (but of course, being cowards, it was 2 of them vs me and I declined). <BR/><BR/>But look at the Boston Craigslist rant and raves section and you will see much of the same stuff. And also this whole idea of 'equal time' is ridiculous. A post saying that nothing is wrong with interracial marriage and what is the big deal is NOT the equivalent of some racist asshole ranting and raving about miscegenation. The newspaper made a major mistake allowing comments of the latter nature without highlighting them and placing them in a larger context (i.e. to point out that we are not in a so called post-racial America).baiskelinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-74534774765454298842009-04-13T15:13:00.000-05:002009-04-13T15:13:00.000-05:00Nat - I certainly hope this is the right place to ...Nat - I certainly hope this is the right place to say that! They are cute, darn it!Shark-Fuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03323962708956637012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-76190379418601079492009-04-13T15:09:00.000-05:002009-04-13T15:09:00.000-05:00The whole thing is just sickening. I agree the int...The whole thing is just sickening. I agree the internet is not the place to try and change people's minds or to try to educate, it quickly leads to name-calling and threats -- doesn't really matter what the topic is.<BR/><BR/>(Probably not the right place to say this but that couple on the cover are really very cute.)Nathttp://fromnatsbrain.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-51608388872909827412009-04-13T15:01:00.000-05:002009-04-13T15:01:00.000-05:00"The problem with the discussion is in not taking ..."The problem with the discussion is in not taking it it far enough. Anyone can say anything but get them to try to explain themselves and sometimes they see that they are being insane."<BR/><BR/>This would be true if you were talking about a medium in which people were visible and accountable. A face to face dialog can produce decent results.<BR/><BR/>An Internet forum or thread, however, is rarely the place for that. People can hide, prevaricate and simply refuse to answer.<BR/><BR/>There was a cartoon on the Web a few years ago that had a formula that went something like, "Normal person + anonymity + audience = complete jerkwad." <BR/><BR/>Now, take that formula and replace "normal person" with "more or less closet racist" and there's your fruitful discussion.IseultTheIdlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-17414587632878834672009-04-13T14:38:00.000-05:002009-04-13T14:38:00.000-05:00I'd like to have a dialogue with these fucked-up-f...I'd like to have a dialogue with these fucked-up-from-the-floor-up racists. I've got my baseball bat right here....Jeffrey Rickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04092417221754047322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-43229746398016049192009-04-13T14:08:00.000-05:002009-04-13T14:08:00.000-05:00What would have been constructive would be to have...What would have been constructive would be to have taken those commments that were offensive and ask why to the people who wrote them. Ask theme where they got these ideas and how they have constructed them. And how they think their ideas helps the society(we know they don't and maybe they will see that as well). I think once people have to explain themselves sometimes they see they really are doing more harm than good with ideas that are not constructive. The problem with the discussion is in not taking it it far enough. Anyone can say anything but get them to try to explain themselves and sometimes they see that they are being insane. Race always creates a knee jerk response. There really has to be a moderator and a vision as to the point of putting these kinds of questions out there in the first place. What was the paper's point? Sell more papers? Keep people at their site? Really try to solve some problems? If they wanted to solve problems then they must be more attentive to how to properly achieve this goal. Just throwing the qwestion out there is lazy and shows ignorance on the newspaper's part.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-18592125738941896582009-04-13T12:59:00.000-05:002009-04-13T12:59:00.000-05:00Maybe I'm missing the point of the blog. It's supp...Maybe I'm missing the point of the blog. It's supposed to be about dialogue right? Not seeing the dialogue so much. What I am seeing (though not surprisingly) is that racist underbelly that still exists in this country. In fact it's not so underbelly anymore, it appears to be more overt.Soulpowerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15781715013400808497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-41303950174164932802009-04-13T12:58:00.000-05:002009-04-13T12:58:00.000-05:00Okay - I was hanging in there until Clark's commen...Okay - I was hanging in there until Clark's comment and had to get up off the floor. "We need to see that.... to understand racism still exists?" They're joking, right? <BR/><BR/>It's called mob mentality for a reason; anonymity in bunches brings out the worst in people. <BR/><BR/>The Chicago Tribune tried this last year - some of the discussion was insightful, some funny, and some just downright nasty. Comments that should have been left on the 6th grade playground where they (not really but you know what I mean) belong. As a society, we have much more inportant issues to discuss. The economy... health care.... affortable housing.... playoff hockey.... (you knew I'd be able to work that in.)Rileysdtrnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-78307085347081251202009-04-13T12:18:00.000-05:002009-04-13T12:18:00.000-05:00What, really, is a "conversation" about race? A "h...What, really, is a "conversation" about race? A "healthy," or "constructive," or "meaningful" conversation? No, I am not even going that far. What would constitute a conversation, using the barest minimal level of definitions?<BR/><BR/>I am almost to the point where I believe there is no such thing as conversations or "dialogs" about race-related topics. Maybe the best way to move forward is to just <I>do</I>. Do what, I have no idea. But it is becoming increasing clear to me that conversatin ain't doing much good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-73176577022141174342009-04-13T12:12:00.000-05:002009-04-13T12:12:00.000-05:00Strange to say it, but some of us not-particularly...Strange to say it, but some of us not-particularly-racist white folks do need to be reminded that we're not fully representative. There are an awful lot of people out there who cannot have a "conversation" about race because they are stridently defensive (as well as offensive, if that even needed to be said).<BR/><BR/>Then again it's the Internet, where every conversation seems to turn into a shouting match ASAP.IseultTheIdlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-2528311425469830632009-04-13T10:56:00.000-05:002009-04-13T10:56:00.000-05:00I grew up in St. Louis so the comments don’t surpr...I grew up in St. Louis so the comments don’t surprise me at all. However, I am disappointed. I was hoping that in the twenty-seven years I’ve been away that things would have improved. Why does a kiss between two people who love each other bother other people so much?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-5488582680107891652009-04-13T09:24:00.000-05:002009-04-13T09:24:00.000-05:00Since they left up the one comparing the kiss to a...<I>Since they left up the one comparing the kiss to a bloody deer carcass a bitch shudders to think of what the fuck they decided to delete.</I><BR/><BR/>According to the moderator, we need to see comments like that in order to understand that racism still exists and have a healthy conversation about it. Unbelievable.<BR/><BR/>http://blog.showmeprogress.com/showComment.do?commentId=6855Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12803863873227813090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10755833.post-74025255382449054092009-04-13T08:58:00.000-05:002009-04-13T08:58:00.000-05:00Those comments were really something. I had to sto...Those comments were really something. I had to stop reading after the one defending slavery. "Assaulted" indeed.<BR/><BR/>Not that long ago, I'd been telling someone who asked that my sweetie and I had never had any trouble as an interracial couple. Either we haven't been hanging out in the right places, or we've been oblivious to what is going on in people's minds.<BR/><BR/>How disturbing. And not a constructive way to keep a conversation going.Bettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15320912691348176345noreply@blogger.com